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    <title>How good are YOUR intrapersonal skills?</title>
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    <summary><![CDATA[ Working in the Bay Area, I'm often asked to help brilliant engineers improve their leadership and communication skills. "They've got the smarts; if they could just get the interpersonal skills to match, they'd be all set" is what I&nbsp;...]]></summary>
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					<p>Working in the Bay Area, I'm often asked to help brilliant 
engineers improve their leadership and communication skills.</p>
<p>"They've got the smarts; if they could just get the interpersonal 
skills to match, they'd be all set" is what I&nbsp; often hear from companies
 who bring me in.</p>
<p>Oh, I wish.</p>
<p>Yes, interpersonal skills are important. But even more so are <em>intra</em>personal
 skills; the skills to help you manage what's going on inside yourself. 
This would include self-confidence; the ability to skillfully handle 
difficult conversations, emotions or experiences; or the ability to 
navigate uncertainty-just to name a few.</p>
<p>What goes on inside you affects how you interact with&nbsp; your world.&nbsp; 
It <a target="_blank" href="http://spitfireteam.com/blog/?p=106">impacts
 your body language</a>; your listening skills; your likeability. It 
also affects your performance-your critical and analytical thinking,&nbsp; 
and particularly <a target="_blank" href="http://spitfireteam.com/blog/?p=113">your capacity for innovation</a>.
 In fact, few things affect performance more than the way we feel about 
ourselves.</p>
<p>So really, it's worth starting there; with these <em>intra</em>personal
 skills as the necessary foundation for leadership. Giving people great 
external communication skills, without giving them the skills to handle 
internal stuff, is a bit like putting pretty turrets and balconies on a 
house with faulty foundations. Nice touch; but at the first earthquake, 
everything falls apart.
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    <title>How Clean Is Your Mental Diet?</title>
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    <published>2010-07-01T08:17:15Z</published>
    <updated>2010-07-01T08:20:01Z</updated>

    <summary><![CDATA[Another great insight from&nbsp;Dr. Ali Binazir: don't underestimate the influence of your mental diet on your daily life. Says Benazir "The influence of the info we allow casually to enter our psyche is real and substantial."He describes a simple but...]]></summary>
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        <![CDATA[<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(11, 16, 20); font-family: Times; font-size: 16px; line-height: 18px; "><h2 style="text-align: left;margin-top: 20px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; color: rgb(244, 176, 105); font: normal normal normal 1.4em/normal georgia, 'trebuchet ms'; border-bottom-width: 1px; border-bottom-style: solid; border-bottom-color: rgb(221, 221, 221); "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(11, 16, 20); font-family: Times; font-size: 16px; line-height: 22px; ">Another great insight from&nbsp;<a target="_blank" href="http://awakenyourgenius.com/" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; color: rgb(136, 0, 0); text-decoration: underline; ">Dr. Ali Binazir</a>: don't underestimate the influence of your mental diet on your daily life. Says Benazir "The influence of the info we allow casually to enter our psyche is real and substantial."</span></h2><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(11, 16, 20); font-family: Times; font-size: 16px; line-height: 22px; "><br /></span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 22px; ">He describes a simple but dramatic "priming" experiment devised by psychologist John Bargh; in which subjects were asked to make sentences out of a list of words as quickly as possible. Certain participants were given a list containing the words "old," "grey," "wrinkle," "bingo" and "Florida". What was really being measured was the time it took for subjects to leave the testing room and get to the front door of the building after completing the test.</span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 22px; "><br /></span></div><div class="entry" style="margin-top: 2px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; line-height: 22px; "><p style="text-align: left;margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; ">Believe it or not, those who'd had the "old" words in their quizzes were about 30% slower-moving than those who didn't. Simply reading certain words "aged" them, albeit temporarily.</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "><div style="text-align: left;">The reverse experiment was organized by Ellen Langer of Harvard, who gathered a group of elderly patients in a nursing-home like environment; but surrounded them with the decor, clothing, and music of their twenties. The researchers went so far as to pipe in the radio programs &amp; TV shows from that time; and the magazines all around were from that era. Even the fridge was stocked with long-discontinued foods.</div><div style="text-align: left;">In the ensuing weeks, physical exams showed tighter skin, better eyesight, less joint pain, increased muscle strength and even higher bone density than before and compared to the control group.</div></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "><div style="text-align: left;">As Benazir cautions: if elements of ourselves as fundamental as bone density and eyesight are affected by what we see, hear, and thus what we think; can you imagine what it's likely to be doing within our minds? The New York Times has a fascinating "<a target="_blank" href="http://www.nytimes.com/2007/07/31/health/psychology/31subl.html?pagewanted=1&amp;_r=1" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; color: rgb(136, 0, 0); text-decoration: underline; ">who's minding the mind</a>?" article with more startling experiments.</div><div style="text-align: left;">Some mental food is health food. Some mental food is junk food. Pay close attention what you're pouring into your mind.</div></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "><br /></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "><br /></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "><br /></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "><br /></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; ">&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;</p></div></span> ]]>
        
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    <published>2010-06-30T00:51:26Z</published>
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