It's a fork in the road.
Which path will you choose?
There are only two options: V or V?
1. Do you want to go through this world feeling, believing, seeing, and knowing that you are a Victim?
2. Do you want to see and experience yourself as a Victor?
If you want to be the Victim, you WILL find tons of reasons why it's true that you are one.
-The way you've been treated.
-What happened to you as a kid.
-The fact that he/she (truly) did you wrong.
If you go with "Victor" it's not as easy. But it is simple.
Put on the glasses of gratitude. You will start to see that you are blessed beyond belief. That your very life itself shows that you are worthwhile...yes a "Winner" even.
How you see yourself and how you interpret what happens to you determines your experience...of life.
As Anais Nin said, "We don't see things as they are. We see things as we are."